Comments on: Lesbian Life Lesson #27: Be true to yourself

By: Martini CJ

Martini CJ — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:52:42 +0000

You are one classy lady.

By: G

Sat, 02 Jan 2010 22:35:01 +0000

Sorry it took me so long to comment. It takes courage, insight and more than a little humility to take this kind of perspective on your life, so you have my respect.

Have you read The Anatomy of Peace? It’s very interesting and teaches that true peace comes from acting in alignment with your core beliefs and values. This post reminded me of that.

It will get easier.

By: Akki

Akki — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 05:10:14 +0000

FFG, do you find me intense?

By: Akki

Akki — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 23:02:48 +0000

I woke up this morning with the knowing that I am not the center of any universe, perhaps other than my own. And to be tbe center of my universe, things have to orbit around me, not be attached to me and spin with me, but line up in some predictable pattern, not the random way things would look if no one was the center of the universe. Weird, I just feel better lifting the pressure off. Even a spinning planet is open to the random torpedo called a comet. Nothing is as it seems and control is an illusion. I wish I could have a drink.

By: saintchick

saintchick — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 05:22:33 +0000

I think you are doing a wonderful job in the face of all the other bullshit…

By: pixie

pixie — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 04:07:45 +0000

*sighs* i’ve SO been there .. I will love her until eternity’s end, but I will feel hurt and betrayed …. and unforgiving, just as long.

Sends you lots of pixie wishes, and strength, that you find that “I mean it” moment .. and more power to you for knowing that you want it!!

HUGS pixie

By: Miss Terioso

Miss Terioso — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:12:23 +0000

::hums our thoughts are prayers for you in spite of the fact that she hates that song:: That’s how you know how much I love you.

By: lesbo

lesbo — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 17:34:45 +0000

i love this part, “I don’t really mean it. But I will keep saying it, keep praying it, until I do.”

you’re dealing with a lot and it’s all part of the process.

this is a great post

By: Scintillectual

Scintillectual — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 17:31:26 +0000

Now THERE is the woman I know and love with all my heart. Your true nature is what makes you the best friend I’ve ever had in all of my adult life and could ever hope to have — the woman who is closer to me than my own sister (well, okay, the postman is closer to me than my own sister, but you get the sentiment). We all have our moments when we get caught up in the “what might be’s” rather than the “this is what it really is and it’s not all that great’s.” How many times have you bailed my ass out of total misery when I kept sinking back into habits and patterns that were so very wrong for me? Unfortunately, I wasn’t living out of character and I’ve had to begin to live true to myself. You, on the other hand, have the insight and spirit to realize that you were acting outside of yourself and have taken steps toward forgiving yourself and forgiving others. Let the rest go…you are all that matters, darling, and you ARE classy and fabulous! I wouldn’t have you any other way.

xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

By: Jude

Jude — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 16:27:00 +0000

Live, learn, become an even better person from the experience and be that classy woman that you wear so well.