Comments on: Lesbian Life Lesson #28: You are responsible for your own orgasms http://femmefairygodmother.com/2010/01/19/lll28/ Fri, 30 Jul 2010 03:54:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: 97percentqueer http://femmefairygodmother.com/2010/01/19/lll28/comment-page-1/#comment-1106 97percentqueer Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:35:34 +0000 http://femmefairygodmother.com/?p=748#comment-1106 I had the very good fortune of sleeping with a femme goddess when I was a 17 year-old baby butch. She made it very clear that I was not going anywhere until she came. Her self-possession and lack of self-consciousness about her desire taught me a powerful lesson that day. I had the very good fortune of sleeping with a femme goddess when I was a 17 year-old baby butch. She made it very clear that I was not going anywhere until she came. Her self-possession and lack of self-consciousness about her desire taught me a powerful lesson that day.

]]> By: 8thday http://femmefairygodmother.com/2010/01/19/lll28/comment-page-1/#comment-1102 8thday Wed, 20 Jan 2010 16:05:26 +0000 http://femmefairygodmother.com/?p=748#comment-1102 I agree with what you are saying here. But rather than orgasm being the goal, I think that true intimacy should be the ultimate goal. It requires even greater communiation and sharing and is, over the long term, even more satisfying. I agree with what you are saying here. But rather than orgasm being the goal, I think that true intimacy should be the ultimate goal. It requires even greater communiation and sharing and is, over the long term, even more satisfying.

]]> By: Jude http://femmefairygodmother.com/2010/01/19/lll28/comment-page-1/#comment-1100 Jude Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:48:30 +0000 http://femmefairygodmother.com/?p=748#comment-1100 I totally agree with you. Although, there are some cases where you can come across someone that is totally bad-in-bed. But that's not where I'm at now. Whenever I get stuck and can't reach that wonderful plateau, I know I'm overly stressed and need to relax my mind. So with some direction to the Mrs and a change in position all is good from there to OMG! I totally agree with you. Although, there are some cases where you can come across someone that is totally bad-in-bed.

But that’s not where I’m at now. Whenever I get stuck and can’t reach that wonderful plateau, I know I’m overly stressed and need to relax my mind. So with some direction to the Mrs and a change in position all is good from there to OMG!

]]> By: 2momswithaplan http://femmefairygodmother.com/2010/01/19/lll28/comment-page-1/#comment-1098 2momswithaplan Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:01:04 +0000 http://femmefairygodmother.com/?p=748#comment-1098 I could never orgasm with a man... maybe it was because I'm a lesbian! When Holly and I first got together, she would take so long to have an orgasm. I actually thought that maybe it was something I was doing wrong. So we talked about it, tried a few different things and now (6 years later), I can make her cum in a matter of minutes... Although I do like to prolong the event... ;) I could never orgasm with a man… maybe it was because I’m a lesbian!

When Holly and I first got together, she would take so long to have an orgasm. I actually thought that maybe it was something I was doing wrong. So we talked about it, tried a few different things and now (6 years later), I can make her cum in a matter of minutes… Although I do like to prolong the event… ;)

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