Femme Fairy Godmother

Sometimes people think that giving too much thought to how we appear to the rest of the world is shallow or not worthy of attention. I disagree.
Like it or not, people do make judgments about us based on our appearance. We can accept that and try to present a good impression – or [...]

You may have noticed the lack of writing. I haven’t felt like it. I have been reading a lot and watching TV-on-DVD (Angel, Bones, Criminal Minds) and avoiding people, for the most part. No Twitter, no lunch dates with friends, none of that. Or at least not much of it.
I wish I could tell [...]

I was talking to a friend recently who was having difficulty with her girlfriend. The girlfriend couldn’t have orgasms easily, if at all, and she blamed my friend. When my friend told me this, she wanted to blame herself for her girlfriend’s lack of orgasms. I had to interrupt her: You, and only you, [...]

About 12 years ago, my friends J & B invited me to go up north with them and a bunch of their friends. Their friends were all couples, so I asked my friend E to go with me. (An aside: “Go Up North” is a Big Thing to Do in MI. North is relative, [...]

Yesterday was an interesting day for my Facebook friends.
Status Update 1: I think I’d better go back to bed and try again tomorrow.
Status Update 2: Oh, and also? Women suck. I am, apparently, in the angry phase. Ugh. Did I say women suck? No? Well, then … women suck. /rant.
Status Update 3: I am now [...]

On Sunday, Sweetheart Heathen and I stopped seeing each other.
I don’t really feel like giving you all the details, so I’m not. I’ll tell you this:
It sucks but I’m going to get over it.

It has been pointed out to me that I have not been writing real posts lately. According to VB(nf)GF, recipes do not count. If they were *her* favorite cookies, she’d probably complain less, but whatev.
The thing is, there are so many things that I want to talk about and they are all related [...]

I have, almost without noticing, acquired a girlfriend.
Yes, you read that correctly. I have a girlfriend.
To be honest with you, I’m not sure how it happened. I started hanging out with someone a while ago but I certainly didn’t expect to end up with a girlfriend. In fact, I told [...]

My girl Dawg got a question on her blog that she thought I oughta answer.
Here it is:
Random question from a random reader:
what do you think about women who are lesbians, who have never dated men, but then meet a great guy and start dating him?
(ahem) Completely hypothetical, of course
Interesting question.
So [...]

I used to write a blog called Dichotomous Nature. That actually describes me well. An example?
This is my favorite poem ever. It’s by Rumi.
The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.
I believe that to [...]